The fall and recovery of my life.
I hope this is an inspirational post for everybody and not seen as gloating. When I went through the first couple of months, hearing success stories gave me hope, motivation and the power to persevere. A brief summary of what I went through and in order of which I found out: Married a woman that I had dated since I was 16. Found out about a current affair at the age of 27. That one had lasted the past 9 months. Revealed to me she was pregnant. Was told it was no doubt mine. Uncovered more affairs all the way back to when we were 17. I think my count is over 12 that I know of. Won my case to get a DNA test. She would not take it, filed to have her held in contempt. Won. Got my test done, not my child. Throughout the relationship I went through physical and emotional abuse. I was shamed, manipulated into thinking I was the reason our friends didn't want to hang out with us anymore, and that our friends were deceiving us. Lot of bullshit. I had suicidal thoughts through some of...
